Cousins: Connected through slavery, a Black woman and a White woman discover their past—and each other Spiral-Bound | April 20, 2021

Betty Kilby Baldwin, Phoebe Kilby

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The true story of a descendant of enslavers, and a descendant of the persons her family enslaved, discovering each other—and the fact that they share ancestors

What happens when a White woman, Phoebe, contacts a Black woman, Betty, saying she suspects they are connected through slavery? First surprise? Betty responds, “Hello, Cousin.” Betty had fought for an education and won. She broke through the concrete ceiling in the workplace and succeeded. A documentary of her life was about to debut. Without thinking, she invites Phoebe to a family dinner and the premiere of the documentary. Second surprise? She forgot to tell her family who was coming to dinner. Betty finds an activist partner in Phoebe. Cousins indeed, they commit to a path of reconciliation. In alternating chapters, each tells her dramatic story—from Betty’s experience as one of the first Black children to attend her desegregated school, to Phoebe's eventual question to Betty: “How do I begin to repair the harms?” Piercingly honest. Includes a working reparations project which the two women conceived together. Betty and Phoebe have been interviewed on the BBC and were recently featured in a special on Netflix.
Publisher: Independent Publishers Group
Original Binding: Trade Paperback
Pages: 244 pages
ISBN-10: 1947597426
Item Weight: 0.8 lbs
Dimensions: 5.5 x 0.7 x 8.5 inches
Customer Reviews: 4 out of 5 stars Up to 30 ratings
"I highly recommend this amazing story of racial reconciliation." —Leymah Gbowee, Nobel Peace Prize winner
Betty Kilby Baldwin entered and graduated from Warren County (VA) High School after suing based on the landmark Brown Supreme Court decision. She started employment as a factory worker, eventually achieving executive management positions. Phoebe Kilby, a descendant of enslavers, was inspired by the "Coming to the Table" movement to connect with descendants of persons her family enslaved. She is trained in environmental management and in conflict transformation.